Help with Domestic Abuse

Posted by Frank Gillespie MA

Help with Domestic Abuse is an online counseling service offering people a chance to talk to a fully trained, experienced counselor in a completely confidential manner, regardless of location or ability to travel. However, because it is online, it is extremely important that if there is any immediate possibility of physical danger, the victim should immediately seek domestic violence support locally.

Having said that, getting local support for domestic abuse is not always easy and online domestic abuse counseling can help in a number of areas, especially where the abuse is not physical. Abuse can be emotional, verbal, or financial and in all of these cases, there is help for women in abusive relationships online. Many men feel very ashamed or in denial at being a victim and therefore are slow to get support for domestic abuse, so the confidentiality and anonymity of online domestic abuse counselling is very appealing.

Online domestic violence counseling must be more nuanced, and there is some debate if it is even appropriate to attempt to help domestic violence online if it is ongoing. Certainly if there is any threat of immediate danger the situation should be handled locally if possible. However many people need to know how to get out of a domestic violence relationship. An online domestic violence counseling service may also be able to help you find out where to get help for domestic violence and offer suggestions on how to get help for domestic violence locally. Starting the process to learn how to get out of domestic violence is not easy and may be done initially online if other methods seem too dangerous or embarrassing.

Online counselling for domestic violence victims who are no longer in the relationship is very appropriate and takes many forms that depend on the individual’s circumstances. An online battered women's counselor can teach you how to recover from domestic violence. Counselling for domestic violence victims who are no longer in an abusive relationship can be provided successfully online and includes help overcoming the trauma, learning to live a normal life again, and learning how to avoid repeating the situation and build healthy relationships. Therapy for domestic violence helps the victim deal with the long-term emotional damage inflicted. Frequently in online couples therapy domestic violence in the past, with a past or current partner can be a critical issue in rebuilding trust.

An online domestic violence counselling service can also offer domestic violence counseling for abusers, though to be successful, the abuser must have a sincere desire to change not only their behavior, but also the thought patterns and beliefs that drove the violence or abuse in the first place. The same is true for couples counselling for abusive relationships. Online abusive relationship counseling is unlikely to be effective unless there is a real commitment to fundamental change, rather than it just being used as a façade to keep the relationship going. In addition there can be no ongoing abuse and the abuse has to have been relatively mild, and or infrequent.

An online domestic abuse counselling service may also be able to help someone currently in a troubled relationship decide if they think they may need domestic violence counseling or help with domestic abuse.

The great advantage of online domestic abuse help is its anonymity and confidentiality. Your councilor does not even need to know your name and the payment receipt will give no indication of the type of service received.

About our online counseling site is an exclusively online psychotherapy therapy site that has been providing online video counseling, online chat therapy, and other counselling services online since 2014. During that time we have learnt what it takes to provide you with caring, cost-effective, convenient, confidential, and effective help online. Domestic abuse help is something we have significant experience with, as well as counseling for domestic violence victims. Our technology also allows people trapped in their homes or in remote locations to get professional help for abusive relationships. This also applies to others whose jobs or other commitments makes it hard to meet with a counselor.

Using our secure, simple system you can confidentially connect with fully credentialed, experienced therapists. They have been specially trained to provide chat therapy online and online video therapy. No matter where you are in the world, or whatever your schedule, at last you can now confidently get quality professional online therapy.

The whole system has been designed with your confidentiality and safety in mind. People needing counseling for domestic violence or abusive relationship counseling must have confidentiality, so all communication is password protected and e-mail notifications are generic.

We are the only online therapy site that allows you to start by having an online psychologist chat with you about your problems. At any time, you can either switch to online video therapy, or simply continue with chat therapy online, using either dedicated blocks of the counselors time, or just short messages spread out over the weeks.

We have spent years developing the software for you to be able to get counselling services online without needing to download or install any software, or use a system that could compromise your confidentiality such as Skype.

About Online Chat Therapy

Many people wonder if online psychology chat therapy is effective. Globally, it is becoming more and more mainstream, especially amongst younger people, because of its convenience and anonymity. The answer is that it is definitely effective, but there are some caveats. The therapist must receive special training, because it is not the same thing as simply delivering traditional therapy online. There are special techniques that must be learned. The other issue it that sometimes it is more time consuming to express what you really feel than an actual conversation. makes it super easy to switch to face to face or voice only communication with your provider at any time you feel it is best for you. Using our online therapy website allows you to take advantage of the convenience of online chat therapy with confidence.

Frank Gillespie MA

Frank Gillespie has a Master's Degree in Counseling from LaSalle University in Philadelphia. He is a nationally Certified Counselor (NCC). He has provided therapy for over 23 years. During his career, he has helped more than 10,000 people move past their obstacles towards reaching their potential and fulfillment in their lives. He practices Cognitive Behavioral Therapy with a warm and nurturing approach. In addition to being a therapist, Frank has been an adjunct college professor teaching social work, a clinical consultant, a clinical director, and a seminar speaker. Frank has recently retired from his full time practice to focus on a part time online practice. He is married. He enjoys listening to music, watching sports, power walking, swimming, reading and writing.


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